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Join a guided session with women who understand.

Join an expertly facilitated, text-based support session with a group of women processing a difficult birth.
Developed in partnership with the Birth Trauma Association and backed by Nesta - the UK's innovation agency for social good.



1 in 3 women describe their birth as traumatic. Many never get the chance to process what happened. We think that needs to change.

Rated 9.5/10 by our community, across facilitation, safety and quality

  • Life changing

    "I didn't even know if what I went through counted. I just knew I felt really alone. Hearing other women's stories helped me realise my feelings were valid."

    Sarah

    8 months post partum

  • I felt heard

    "This was the first time I felt truly heard. No one telling me to 'move on' or that 'at least the baby is healthy.'"

    MN

    9 weeks post-partum

  • A weight lifted

    "Knowing that I'm not alone and that my feelings are valid was such a weight lifted."

    Anonymous

  • Reassurance from others

    "Nice to have some reassurance from others who have been through similar experiences and also help others"

    Anonymous

  • Life changing

    "I didn't even know if what I went through counted. I just knew I felt really alone. Hearing other women's stories helped me realise my feelings were valid."

    Sarah

    8 months post partum

  • I felt heard

    "This was the first time I felt truly heard. No one telling me to 'move on' or that 'at least the baby is healthy.'"

    MN

    9 weeks post-partum

  • A weight lifted

    "Knowing that I'm not alone and that my feelings are valid was such a weight lifted."

    Anonymous

  • Reassurance from others

    "Nice to have some reassurance from others who have been through similar experiences and also help others"

    Anonymous

  • Life changing

    "I didn't even know if what I went through counted. I just knew I felt really alone. Hearing other women's stories helped me realise my feelings were valid."

    Sarah

    8 months post partum

  • I felt heard

    "This was the first time I felt truly heard. No one telling me to 'move on' or that 'at least the baby is healthy.'"

    MN

    9 weeks post-partum

  • A weight lifted

    "Knowing that I'm not alone and that my feelings are valid was such a weight lifted."

    Anonymous

  • Reassurance from others

    "Nice to have some reassurance from others who have been through similar experiences and also help others"

    Anonymous

You don't have to face this alone.

You don't need a diagnosis or a label. You don’t need your experience to be ‘bad enough’. Mendara is a place held for you.

Meet Our Facilitators

Each Mendara session is held by trained facilitators who bring professional care, lived understanding, and a steady group presence.

Rachael, Mendara facilitator

Rachael

Chair of the Birth Trauma Association

I came to the role of BTA chair and volunteer manager due to my own experience of a twin pregnancy which was complicated by a life-changing placental abruption, emergency caesarean birth, and severe postpartum complications.

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Leone

Session Facilitator

With my third pregnancy I was hospitalised at 20 weeks with sepsis, and spent time in intensive care. I first realised I had postnatal depression four months after, but it took a further year before I reached out and was, gently, told I had PTSD. I ultimately credit EMDR therapy with saving my life, as well as the Birth Trauma Association, who provided a space for me to tell my story. I want to help create a space for others to feel less alone and tell their story. There's power in taking back our stories but healing is possible.

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Colleen

Session Facilitator

I experienced a difficult lead up to my first birth, including a severe PUPPP rash, multiple ‘stretch & sweeps’ which I experienced as extremely painful and violating, and fourth degree tears. I didn't realise for some time that I was experiencing birth trauma. It is important for me to be able to offer support to others in a similar situation as it's an area where gratitude and grief, delight and devastation can sit all at once, which can feel very overwhelming when navigating parenthood. A little support can go a long way.

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Connect with others

Meet others who've had a similar experience.

Connect with others

Meet others who've had a similar experience.

No judgement

Share your story or just observe. A safe space built for you.

No judgement

Share your story or just observe. A safe space built for you.

Feel validated

Your feelings and experience matter. We see you.

Feel validated

Your feelings and experience matter. We see you.

Feel validated

Your feelings and experience matter. We see you.

Process what happened

Process your experience with support from others who truly understand

Process what happened

Process your experience with support from others who truly understand

Process what happened

Process your experience with support from others who truly understand

Mendara group sessions

Ready to take the next step? Join a guided group session with women who understand.

A guided, text-based group session

A Mendara session is a guided group conversation on WhatsApp - no cameras, no pressure to speak. Just a small group of women who get it, and a facilitator to hold the space.

Expertly facilitated

Our sessions are led by Rachael, a trained facilitator with lived experience of birth trauma. Rachael is also the Chair of the Birth Trauma Association - a charity, working to support women and families who have experienced traumatic birth.

Completely anonymous

You'll choose an alias before your first session. No real names required. When picking your session time, you will pick an alias to use. Your phone number is hidden in the group chat.

Fits around you

Sessions run daily on each weekday, at lunchtime and in the evening. Can't make the time? Tell us what works and we will get back to you within 48 hours.

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Sessions are £5 instead of £10 for a limited time!

Use code: SUMMER2026 at checkout

Money back guarantee

Small groups

Secure conversation on WhatsApp

Completely anonymous

Safe, facilitated space

Mendara group sessions

Ready to take the next step? Join a guided group session with women who understand.

A guided, text-based group session

A Mendara session is a guided group conversation on WhatsApp - no cameras, no pressure to speak. Just a small group of women who get it, and a facilitator to hold the space.

Expertly facilitated

Our sessions are led by Rachael, a trained facilitator with lived experience of birth trauma. Rachael is also the Chair of the Birth Trauma Association - a charity, working to support women and families who have experienced traumatic birth.

Completely anonymous

You'll choose an alias before your first session. No real names required. When picking your session time, you will pick an alias to use. Your phone number is hidden in the group chat.

Fits around you

Sessions run daily on each weekday, at lunchtime and in the evening. Can't make the time? Tell us what works and we will get back to you within 48 hours.

Jul 2026
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Sessions are £5 instead of £10 for a limited time!

Use code: SUMMER2026 at checkout

Money back guarantee

Small groups

Secure conversation on WhatsApp

Completely anonymous

Safe, facilitated space

Mendara group sessions

Ready to take the next step? Join a guided group session with women who understand.

A guided, text-based group session

A Mendara session is a guided group conversation on WhatsApp - no cameras, no pressure to speak. Just a small group of women who get it, and a facilitator to hold the space.

Expertly facilitated

Our sessions are led by Rachael, a trained facilitator with lived experience of birth trauma. Rachael is also the Chair of the Birth Trauma Association - a charity, working to support women and families who have experienced traumatic birth.

Completely anonymous

You'll choose an alias before your first session. No real names required. When picking your session time, you will pick an alias to use. Your phone number is hidden in the group chat.

Fits around you

Sessions run daily on each weekday, at lunchtime and in the evening. Can't make the time? Tell us what works and we will get back to you within 48 hours.

Jul 2026
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Sessions are £5 instead of £10 for a limited time!

Use code: SUMMER2026 at checkout

Money back guarantee

Small groups

Secure conversation on WhatsApp

Completely anonymous

Safe, facilitated space

How It Works

How to join a session

Our sessions are simple to join and convenient to participate in.

Step

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Buy Session Credit

Buy your session credit, after checkout, you will be redirected to book a time that works for you.

Step

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Select Session Time

Book a time that works for you. Pick an alias, and share your phone number. You will receive a calendar invitation, and your details are kept private.

Step

03

During the session

You will receive an invitation to join your group a few minutes before session starts. You will join a 60-minute discussion with a small group of women and an experienced facilitator, over a private WhatsApp group. Share as much or as little as you're comfortable with, at your own pace.

Step

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After the session

Once the session ends, the chat closes and no one from the group can contact you. Your privacy is protected.

01

Buy Session Credit

Buy your session credit, after checkout, you will be redirected to book a time that works for you.

02

Select Session Time

Book a time that works for you. Pick an alias, and share your phone number. You will receive a calendar invitation, and your details are kept private.

03

During the session

You will receive an invitation to join your group a few minutes before session starts. You will join a 60-minute discussion with a small group of women and an experienced facilitator, over a private WhatsApp group. Share as much or as little as you're comfortable with, at your own pace.

04

After the session

Once the session ends, the chat closes and no one from the group can contact you. Your privacy is protected.

01

Buy Session Credit

Buy your session credit, after checkout, you will be redirected to book a time that works for you.

02

Select Session Time

Book a time that works for you. Pick an alias, and share your phone number. You will receive a calendar invitation, and your details are kept private.

03

During the session

You will receive an invitation to join your group a few minutes before session starts. You will join a 60-minute discussion with a small group of women and an experienced facilitator, over a private WhatsApp group. Share as much or as little as you're comfortable with, at your own pace.

04

After the session

Once the session ends, the chat closes and no one from the group can contact you. Your privacy is protected.

FAQs:

Is this for me?

This is for you if you are still thinking about your birth, even if you are not sure why. You do not need a diagnosis, a label, or a story. You are in the right place if you have not been able to fully process what happened or simply want to talk to someone who truly understands.

What's your money back guarantee?

If for whatever reason, the session wasn't valuable for you, just email hello@mendaracare.com and we will refund you in full. No questions asked.

Is this therapy?
Who is the facilitator?
Is my information kept private?
Will my phone number be visible to other participants?
What if I can't make the session I booked?
What if I'm not ready to share my story?
What if my experience isn't "bad enough"?
Can I attend more than once?
How long are the sessions?
How many people will be in my session?
What platform do you use?
What happens after the session?
What if I need further support after my session?
What if I have another question?

Mendara is a safe online space for women who have experienced a difficult birth.


Mendara is not a substitute for therapy or a medical service. We cannot provide support in an immediate crisis. If you are experiencing an emergency, please dial 999.


By joining a session organised by Mendara, you confirm your understanding that Mendara and the Birth Trauma Association are not responsible for any events that occur outside of these sessions.

© 2026 Mendara. All Rights Reserved.

Mendara is a safe online space for women who have experienced a difficult birth.


Mendara is not a substitute for therapy or a medical service. We cannot provide support in an immediate crisis. If you are experiencing an emergency, please dial 999.


By joining a session organised by Mendara, you confirm your understanding that Mendara and the Birth Trauma Association are not responsible for any events that occur outside of these sessions.

© 2026 Mendara. All Rights Reserved.

Mendara is a safe online space for women who have experienced a difficult birth.


Mendara is not a substitute for therapy or a medical service. We cannot provide support in an immediate crisis. If you are experiencing an emergency, please dial 999.


By joining a session organised by Mendara, you confirm your understanding that Mendara and the Birth Trauma Association are not responsible for any events that occur outside of these sessions.

© 2026 Mendara. All Rights Reserved.