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Your birth didn't go to plan? You're not alone.

Mendara creates safe, guided spaces to help process your birth. Join our free 7-day experience, book a live group session, or sign up to hear about our app when it launches.

Developed in partnership with the Birth Trauma Association and backed by Nesta - the UK's innovation agency for social good.



1 in 3 women describe their birth as traumatic. Many never get the chance to process what happened. We think that needs to change.

Join for free: 7 Days of Mendara

Science-backed, designed by experts. Delivered directly to your phone by text and email.

Daily Prompts

Simple, science-backed prompts and exercises to help you begin making sense of your experience.

Daily Prompts

Simple, science-backed prompts and exercises to help you begin making sense of your experience.

Daily Prompts

Simple, science-backed prompts and exercises to help you begin making sense of your experience.

Feel validated

You will receive a message every day that reminds you that what you went through was real, and that you are not alone in it.

Feel validated

You will receive a message every day that reminds you that what you went through was real, and that you are not alone in it.

Feel validated

You will receive a message every day that reminds you that what you went through was real, and that you are not alone in it.

Start Processing

Complete small exercises, and start proecessing what happened. In your own time, at your own pace.

Start Processing

Complete small exercises, and start proecessing what happened. In your own time, at your own pace.

Start Processing

Complete small exercises, and start proecessing what happened. In your own time, at your own pace.

Sign up for free

Sign up for 7 Days of Mendara

A 7-day journey of guided micro-moments to help you begin processing your birth experience.

Mendara group sessions

Ready to take the next step? Join a guided group session with women who understand.

A guided, text-based group session

A Mendara session is a guided group conversation on WhatsApp - no cameras, no pressure to speak. Just a small group of women who get it, and a facilitator to hold the space.

Expertly facilitated

Our sessions are led by Rachael, a trained facilitator with lived experience of birth trauma. Rachael is also the Chair of the Birth Trauma Association - a charity, working to support women and families who have experienced traumatic birth.

Completely anonymous

You'll choose an alias before your first session. No real names required. When picking your session time, you will pick an alias to use. Your phone number is hidden in the group chat.

Fits around you

Sessions run daily on each weekday, at lunchtime and in the evening. Can't make the time? Tell us what works and we will get back to you within 48 hours.

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Credits are £5 instead of £10 for a limited time!

Money back guarantee

Small groups

Secure conversation on WhatsApp

Compeltely Anonymous

Safe, facilitated space

Mendara group sessions

Ready to take the next step? Join a guided group session with women who understand.

A guided, text-based group session

A Mendara session is a guided group conversation on WhatsApp - no cameras, no pressure to speak. Just a small group of women who get it, and a facilitator to hold the space.

Expertly facilitated

Our sessions are led by Rachael, a trained facilitator with lived experience of birth trauma. Rachael is also the Chair of the Birth Trauma Association - a charity, working to support women and families who have experienced traumatic birth.

Completely anonymous

You'll choose an alias before your first session. No real names required. When picking your session time, you will pick an alias to use. Your phone number is hidden in the group chat.

Fits around you

Sessions run daily on each weekday, at lunchtime and in the evening. Can't make the time? Tell us what works and we will get back to you within 48 hours.

Apr 2026
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Credits are £5 instead of £10 for a limited time!

Money back guarantee

Small groups

Secure conversation on WhatsApp

Compeltely Anonymous

Safe, facilitated space

Mendara group sessions

Ready to take the next step? Join a guided group session with women who understand.

A guided, text-based group session

A Mendara session is a guided group conversation on WhatsApp - no cameras, no pressure to speak. Just a small group of women who get it, and a facilitator to hold the space.

Expertly facilitated

Our sessions are led by Rachael, a trained facilitator with lived experience of birth trauma. Rachael is also the Chair of the Birth Trauma Association - a charity, working to support women and families who have experienced traumatic birth.

Completely anonymous

You'll choose an alias before your first session. No real names required. When picking your session time, you will pick an alias to use. Your phone number is hidden in the group chat.

Fits around you

Sessions run daily on each weekday, at lunchtime and in the evening. Can't make the time? Tell us what works and we will get back to you within 48 hours.

Apr 2026
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T
W
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13
14
15
16
17
18

Credits are £5 instead of £10 for a limited time!

Money back guarantee

Small groups

Secure conversation on WhatsApp

Compeltely Anonymous

Safe, facilitated space

Mendara is a safe online space for women who have experienced a difficult birth.


Mendara is not a substitute for therapy or a medical service. We cannot provide support in an immediate crisis. If you are experiencing an emergency, please dial 999.


By joining a session organised by Mendara, you confirm your understanding that Mendara and the Birth Trauma Association are not responsible for any events that occur outside of these sessions.

© 2026 Mendara. All Rights Reserved.

Mendara is a safe online space for women who have experienced a difficult birth.


Mendara is not a substitute for therapy or a medical service. We cannot provide support in an immediate crisis. If you are experiencing an emergency, please dial 999.


By joining a session organised by Mendara, you confirm your understanding that Mendara and the Birth Trauma Association are not responsible for any events that occur outside of these sessions.

© 2026 Mendara. All Rights Reserved.

Mendara is a safe online space for women who have experienced a difficult birth.


Mendara is not a substitute for therapy or a medical service. We cannot provide support in an immediate crisis. If you are experiencing an emergency, please dial 999.


By joining a session organised by Mendara, you confirm your understanding that Mendara and the Birth Trauma Association are not responsible for any events that occur outside of these sessions.

© 2026 Mendara. All Rights Reserved.